ich habe kinder!

wir sind seit gestern abend wieder zu hause. vielen, vielen dank für all eure glückwünsche. ich hab geschafft was ich wollte. eine natürliche geburt bei der ich alles (egal wie heftig) mitbekam. eine eigene hebamme ist gold wert!
wir erholen uns alle noch ein bißchen und wenn ich wieder mehr kraft habe gehts hier auch weiter.

sollten wir je eine tochter in diese familie bekommen (wir erinnern uns, der achte enkelsohn soll auf dem weg sein), hätt ich gern dieses buch.
bloggerin jaime morrison curtis von prudent baby stellt hier eine sammlung aus wunderbaren und hilfreichen kleinen weisheiten für ihre tochter zusammen.

prudent advice: lessons for my baby daughter (a life list for every woman)

einfach ein schönes video mit wunderbaren hausschuhen!

es ist nicht empfehlenswert morgens um sechs lange darüber nachzudenken, ob wir ein aufziehbares auto haben, wenn man dem kind beim spielen zuhört. bis die erkenntnis da ist, dass wir so ein auto nicht besitzen, ist die wand bereits mit roten strichen verziert.

den nächsten mai verbringe ich in berlin! ESC gewonnen! da muß ich dabei sein.

morgen kommt besuch, deshalb habe ich die alten stühle neu bezogen. das hab ich schon einmal gemacht und auch diesmal war es ganz einfach. wir sollten nur endlich auch mal die polster und nicht nur die bezüge erneuern.

wir leben seit fünf jahren sehr gut ohne einen fernseher. als ich damals für ein halbes jahr zum praktikum nach wien ging hatte ich keinen und zurück in berlin wollte ich ihn nicht mehr.
hier fünf gründe von simple mom, warum man aufs fernsehprogramm verzichten oder sich einschränken sollte:

1. Watching TV correlates with poor health, weight gain, and low energy levels.

It’s no secret — being a couch potato contributes to a lot of our current culture’s weight gain and poor health. I was surprised by some of the statistics I unearthed when I did research on this for my upcoming book. According to the U.S. Center for Disease Control:

“One-fourth of children in America spend four hours or more watching television daily and only 27 percent of students in grades 9 through 12 engage in moderate physical activity at least 30 minutes a day on five or more days of the week.”

Childhood obesity is a major problem; we all know this. One of the biggest links is the increase in screen time — according to Norman Herr, professor of science education at California State University, the average child in America watches 1,680 minutes of television per week. That’s four hours per day.

The health risks are the same for adults and for those outside the U.S. If we want to maintain a healthy weight, keep our needed energy levels up, and generally take care of our bodies, we must keep the TV set off by default.

2. Mindless TV-watching allows all sorts of images and values I don’t necessarily endorse into my home.

Those children that watch 28 hours of TV weekly? They’ll see an average of 8.000 murders by the time they finish elementary school. They’ll also see about 20,000 30-second commercials each year.

There are so many other things I want filling my children’s minds than our culture’s obsession with things and with graphically shocking images. I’d rather them savor real life.

Leaving the TV on means having very little control of what information is infiltrated into your four walls. If you wouldn’t want those images decorating your walls, or if you wouldn’t want that particular act done on your floor, then why display it on a screen for you to watch?

3. Keeping TV watching down to a minimal level means that when it’s on, it’s quality.

This brings me to the topic of purposeful television watching. When you don’t have it on by default, watching TV is so much more enjoyable. You’re being entertained or educated by something you’re allowing into your home, that passes your inspection.

Watching TV as a whole family four hours per week, instead of 28, means that those four hours are much more meaningful. Our kids love “family movie night,” where once per week we select one movie to sit down and watch together, without doing anything else. We dim the lights, pop popcorn, and snuggle together on the couch.

If we’re relaxing in front of the TV any other time, it’s to watch one or two shows we’re deliberately watching because that’s why we turned the TV on in the first place. When the show ends, the television gets turned off.

4. It’s more peaceful, relaxing, and less stressful when the TV is off by default.

TV is loud. Commercials scream at you to buy their (usually) pointless products, cacophony from around the world tells you what you’ve missed in the last ten minutes, and images spin and whir and whiz by you faster than your brain can digest them.

When television is on all the time, you miss out on living slowly. You don’t hear the birds quite as well. It’s harder to have a conversation. In short, it’s a poor replacement for real life — and real life is much more peaceful without media on in the background by default.

5. There are simply other fun things to do.

This is probably my strongest reason for not wanting TV on all the time. I have too many things I’d rather do! Any time I’m watching something on television, I’m deliberately choosing to do that instead of something else.

I love to sew, to read, to decorate, to play with my kids. My kids love to explore and wander outside, to help me cook, to play with their friends. Why would I trade watching someone else’s (fake) life for living out my own?

More often than not, there truly are more things I’d rather do than watch TV. Once you get out of the habit of constantly having it on, it’s honestly not that enticing anymore. It’s just one more option in the myriad of choices out there to do. And there are plenty, believe me.

If your kids complain of being bored, that’s okay. It’s a good thing to be bored — it stretches their imagination; it forces them to think outside the box; it pushes them to do things they don’t normally do.

via simplemom
thanks